Tuesday, August 31, 2010

A big dissapointment from Dad

As I grow older, I become more mature and I am able to think, analyse and do the best decision for myself. From my observation, from the day he graduated from university, he has been exploiting the family members and the money of this family.

He is extremely selfish. What he did is only for his own good. He doesn't care or give a damn for his family members. Moreover, he has never appreciated what the family has done for him. However, my family members haven't given him up and still care for him. Perhaps my parents still have faith in him that he'll be able to earn lots of money and bring happiness to this home.

In my opinion, I don't like my dad the way he treats four of his sons. I can see that he loves the eldest the most.To be honest, I am not jealous of him but Dad should treat four of us the same financially. For instances, I requested to buy a camera for this family so that we can snap nice photos during outings or I can use it for friends gathering, travelling and so on. Having a camera will bring happiness to our family. However, my dad didn't like my idea and instead he phoned him immediately and asked him whether he needs a camera or not. This is extremely unfair. He has graduated from university for almost 7 years and he should be able to buy a camera and not relying on this family. Fuck!!!!Dad is a moron.

He should go and learn how to manage his money. He has lent all his savings to him and he is in the red. As a leader of this family, he should think of the ways for monthly home expenditure, my further education fee, his retirement money and so on. He shouldn't use most of his income on cigarettes and lottery. On the other way, he has to reduce smoking and stop buying lottery. He should start doing savings and use his income wisely on upgrating the quality of living of our family. For examples, he can work with my brothers on buying a strategically situated house so that we can have a comfortable place to live and performe our daily tasks. Besides, he should build up some healthy interests like jogging, reading and so on. Moreover, he has to take care of his personal hygience too.

Haha. My requests for my father is too much. Hence, my request is simple. I just wanna my dad to treat four of us the same and should appreciate the people who is really nice and take a good care of him instead of someone who has been exploiting him and the family. I can see the importance of education from my Dad. Thus, I will do my best in my STPM and university life.
Blogging won't help but I'll seek the chance to tell them my opinions politely.

My strengths are study and sports. I'll use my strengths and live my life to fullest. I think what I should do right now is to pass STPM with flying colours. Besides, I like the passion of my brothers on the job they are pursuing. Hopefully, I can find a career that can give me passion like my brothers. Furthermore, I have to continue doing savings for my emergency use.^^

That's all
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